Addiction Recovery - Answer These Five Questions 'Yes' For Success
By Bill Urell
Addiction recovery can be broken down into five major
questions that need to be answered, processed, and moved through for
success. They are sequential and though the questions may sound
simple, there are hidden land mines that can derail your recovery.
Here are the questions that need 'yes' answers:
1. Do I have a problem?
This question might at first glance seem obvious, but it really is
the key. If a person does not believe that they have a problem, then
certainly, there is no need for treatment and life will continue on
as always. This attitude can involve that frequently over used the
word 'denial'. The problems are evident to everyone around the
person, but it is not clear to them at all. The hidden landmine in
answering yes to this question, is that while you may be aware of a
problem, have you defined it correctly? Hint: it is not the
substance or behavior, but your reaction to, and continuation of it.
For example does your behavior trigger obsession and compulsion?
2. Do I want to do something about the problem?
Again, this question is not as obvious as it may first seem. Lots of
people are aware that they have a problems with addiction yet
continue to not do anything about them. A common attitude is that I
can stop any time I want to, I am just not ready to stop, maybe
tomorrow, or next year, or after the holidays.
3. Do I want to stop now?
If you can answer yes to the questions do I have a problem, and do I
want to do something about it, the next question begging to be asked
is... now? Is the time right? What is it that has now moved you to
action? Most people are moved to action by a crisis that affects
them personally and immediately. This crisis usually cuts through
barriers of procrastination and denial. Examples may be divorce,
jail time, or the imminent threat of losing a job. There are some
people however, who simply get sick and tired of being sick and
tired.
4. Am I my willing to establish a plan that will maximize my chances
for success?
If we have established that a problem exists, we want to do
something about it and the time is right, doesn't it make sense to
pursue the plan that will give us the best chance for success? Here
is where many people go astray. It is essential to get qualified
help and input in developing a personal plan that will give you the
best chance for success. The plan I hear most often, that is almost
a sure-fire method for failure is 'I know what to do let me go do
it.' Another plan that has a near zero success rate is 'I have made
up my mind to quit so that's a done deal,' (using willpower alone).
One tricky part about establishing a successful recovery plan is
that there is no standardized plan will work for everybody.
Professional input will really help.
5. Having established a workable plan, will I put that plan into
action on a daily basis?
You can have the most wonderful recovery plan in the world, but it
does you absolutely no good unless you implement it. This generally
means moving forward and doing the next right thing. It is essential
to build accountability into the execution of your program. A
critical piece of information is that addiction recovery is a
process not event. If you have been in treatment, recovery is not
complete with the end of formal treatment. The changes that
suggested need to be implemented throughout your life on a continual
basis. Addiction recovery is a life long process of change.
Though these steps are a simplification of the addiction recovery
process, answering yes to all five questions, and moving through
positively through them all, will ensure that you are on the right
road for addiction recovery.
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life in
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